Sex is not just another way to express feelings to your partner, it is a part of our life, which makes our personality complete. Sexual activity is based on some steps, they are:
– emotional part;
– physical readiness.
Besides it is important to mention that sexual activity can be in two different ways;
– with partner or partners;
Partner presents standard, classic kind of it, but it doesn’t mean that it is important to create without him. In all cases, it is a good way to express yourself. All of ambitions, emotions, feeling, expectations and other parts of the psychological area found their expression into the way which our sexual life going through.
But what about expectations and their role into the forming of daily life’s model of sexual life?! Most of them based on the different sides of the experience. For example, some movies, which you saw in young age, became to be the base of visual part. Some stories, which were told by friends, became to be another side, because, without your own experience, replacement plays the main role. It happened because your mind needs to form its own attitude to the things, can happen into your life.
Sometimes, expectations about your sex can be the main reason for failures in sexual life. It happens when expectations become higher than your own capabilities. For example, you formed the idea that normal sexual time is about 30-40 minutes. In fact, your “score” is about 15 minutes. It could last longer, but not enough. As the result of compliance impossibility, sometimes inferiority complex can grow up. If it happened, it is able to find some deviations into your sexual life. It could be weak excitation, not enough hard erection, emotional block etc. There are two ways which can become to be the real solution to this situation. They are:
– medical support.
In fact, psychotherapy doesn’t mean that it is necessary to visit a specialist. It means that you should find the only one thing, which gave a start to the extension of this problem. It is not hard to find it. You should remember when ED problems happened for the first time, and analyze its reason.
Medical support helps to destroy such kind of problems during a small period of time. Today we have such kind of pills, like Cialis. Their action based on the results of many types of research, which were recognized as the greatest discovery ever. It forms the second part of all therapy, which could guarantee the result.
So, today, it is important to control your expectations about future sex.
As you can see, our mind plays a huge role in the process of sexual life’s forming. Wrong expectations could bring you harm. The best solution, to avoid it is analyzing and knowledge about modern ways and solutions of this problem. Such kind of expectations could not only destroy the possibility of harm, they could help you to find your own right direction on the way of sexual life’s joy. Besides, it is another good way to get experience without real actions, only by using of information sources.